Saturday, August 1, 2026

Guiding Light Coaching introduction session

 India has 2200 ICF certified coaches in the country , India.  There are 111 newly credentialized coaches in 2025. 


Coachinng demo 


Srikanthan : What's the most important for you to take away from this session . 

Meenakshi kar : Trying to play the ' rescuer ' role. This is close to my VALUES, which clash with ICF values and core competencies. 

My core values are pulling me away from coaching processes and competences. 

Only some people stay a coach . How can I stay a coach ? 

SK : I noticed you the stress when you said ' I want to stay a coach . That's clashing with ICF demands. Your core values. 

Meenakshi Kar ; I am thinking like a mentor but asking questions of a coach. I feel I am not authentic. 


Sreekanthan : where are we right now , in this coaching conversation , vis a vis your goals ? 

Meenakshi Kar : My own presence as a coach is compromised. There is a constant battle going on . My core values with ICF core competences. How do I overcome it ? 


SK : For you to move in the direction you want , what do you feel is the direction we need to focus on ? 

Meenakshi Kar : I have to forego my desire to RUSH into the solution . I will still remain compassionate. I am empowering and helping them in some way . I don't feel inauthentic as a coach . 

What do I need to tell myself, to prevent myself from RUSHING into the solution . I feel I am in more of a rush than they are, to find a solution. 

SK : What VALUES are playing here ? 

MK ; Time is running out. I feel the need for instant fix. The rush in me to get through with this , this has been the pattern in so many areas of my life. Let's quickly get through with this !! 

SK : what do you feel about the WAY we are having this conversation ? 

MK : Making me think more, and some more , about the problem I have brought with me here. I am thinking HARDER now . 

SK : Don't you think you have made some progress you have made so far . 

MK ; I don't think I give sufficient time to  evolve. I am always in solution mode. In constant battle. More than my core values, it's my daily battle and my belief that there isn't much time to focus on a problem. 

SK : Want to do the right thing is one belief. I don't have much time , is another belief. 

SK: What' been key learnings from this conversation so far ? 

MK : Allowing myself some more time, and allowing my clients some more time, will allow me to have a coaching conversation . 

SK : 

MK : I have to tell myself, a solution doesn't have to arrive in the 30 mins for 45 mins of my session. I have to really define expectation for myself and for my client. That will ease some pressure off myself, from my chests. I don't have to solutionise myself. 


SK : How are you going to make your accountable for yourself ?  

MK : When my clients book time with me, they use an app. 

SK : what could support you in this ? 

MK : i AM going to tell myself that I have to find solution for the client , before the end of the session . 

SK : What is one thing you want to tell yourself before end . 

MK : Time is on your slide. Meenkashi. 


SK : Coaching is not the panacea to all clients problems. Soemtimes, mentoring is the solution for them . 


2 ways . All online. 18 weeks , every saturday . Hybrid . 12 weeks. 4 days in person . Rest on line. 12 weeks. 


Next fully online cohort : 22 august  2026 

Next Hybrid : 10 Octobr 2026

Up to 75 % of your coaching hours has to be PAID one. 


Recording : Spread sheet . Log . Name of the client . Email ID . Mobile number. No need of submitting client information .

You need to DECLARE that you have completed. No need of specificcs.