Mon 29 July 2024
Resist the Impulse to Fulfill Every Networking Request
When a former coworker or classmate reaches out on LinkedIn with a request for a referral, it’s normal to feel hesitant, especially if you’re not close with them or don’t yet feel established in your own role. How can you gracefully turn down their networking request?
(1) Start by listening to your instincts—and trusting them.
It’s okay to feel unsure about endorsing someone for a job or investing your energy into their career. Your time and social capital are limited; that’s nothing to feel guilty about.
(2) If you don’t have the time to meet with someone now but might be interested in the future, let them know respectfully but honestly that you’re not in a position to commit the time to a meeting or to make a referral. You could still send them some helpful resources, such as related articles or information about a professional organization they might want to join.
(3) Finally, resist the impulse to fulfill every request that hits your inbox.
Focus instead on building genuine, mutually beneficial relationships, and don’t be shy about setting boundaries to maintain your professional integrity if you spot a red flag. Prioritize your growth, keeping in mind that it’s okay to simply say “no thank you” when necessary.
This tip is adapted from “How to Gracefully Decline a Networking Request” by Deborah Grayson Riegel and Loren Margolis
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